Chapter Seven: Conversations at the End of Life
Conversations AT THE End OF Life
MAUREEN P. KEELEY
I completed my relationship with him. I didn’t walk away thinking, ‘Aauugh, I should have said.’ ‘I didn’t say.’ ‘I could have said.’ ‘I wanted to say.’ There wasn’t anything that we didn’t really say. And in the final analysis the most important, the absolutely most important things were all said; because the person who is left doesn’t get stuck holding a bunch of untied knots. It’s complete. You’re not dragging anything along with it. We both completed the relationship. We both were able to let each other know that we didn’t want it to go that way. But since it was going to go that way anyway [we made the most of that final time]. (Loved one describing her final conversations with her husband, Keeley & Yingling, 2007, pp. 17, 18)
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