Toward Supreme Love in Self – (This Is an Endarkened, Feminist, New Literacies Event)
List #2 (Asher speaks: A list)
1. Decide to be a woman who likes to work.
I mentioned this before. We all know this. Relationships of any kind are hard work. Lazy women cannot formulate lasting romantic relationships. The idea is to honor service and production. My two truths come to mind here. I remember my resolve: to be transparent, to be stronger, smarter, braver, and more loving with each passing day. I resolved to be more helpful, more useful, more conscious, and more attuned to what my Creator desires than what I desire because it takes two. It takes two healthy individuals to build a life-giving partnership. Remember, you’ll be known by your fruits too. Do you have a dream? Are you inspired to accomplish a task, tackle a new profession, start a business, raise remarkable children, be a better friend, sister, daughter, or lover to your boyfriend or husband? Get crackin’, sis. Work hard and smart. Be your truest self. Be Wisdom.
2. Cultivate your character more than personal wealth or material possessions.
I learned a lot of other stuff about women in the book of Proverbs. At the end, in chapter 31, there’s a description of an incredible woman. The first thing I noticed was that she’s got money to buy her own land, clothe her entire household, hire help to tend to some of her family’s needs, and lace herself with the flossiest gear. I immediately felt down with that. Then, as...