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Henpecked Man’s Gender

Queer Masculinities in Polish Nineteenth- and Twentieth-Century Prose

by Tomasz Kaliściak (Author)
©2026 Monographs XII, 322 Pages
Series: Beyond Boundaries, Volume 4

Summary

This book captures queer forms of masculinity in Polish prose of the nineteenth and twentieth centuries – forms that offer an alternative to the model of hegemonic masculinity dominant in patriarchal societies. The eponymous henpecked man figures here as an enigmatic trope of deheroization, the one who dismantles the cult of masculinity through the grotesque, parody, and laughter. Tomasz Kalis´ciak identifies queer masculinities by the following traits: effeminacy, monstrosity, hybridity, homosexuality, anality, and autoimmunity. He examines a wide spectrum of threats to which masculinity was subject over the two centuries and defines it as a biopolitical problem. Kalis´ciak traces variants of masculinity in the works of major Polish writers such as Bolesław Prus, Henryk Sienkiewicz, Witold Gombrowicz, and Stanisław Ignacy Witkiewicz, along with the lesser-known Stefan Grabin´ski and Christian Skrzyposzek, and two recently rediscovered authors: Zbigniew Grabowski and Czesław Dobek.

Table Of Contents

  • Cover
  • Title
  • Copyright
  • Epigraph
  • Contents
  • Figures
  • Acknowledgements
  • Introduction
  • Part I Derailed by Desire
  • 1 The Biopolitics of Masculinity Based on Schreber’s Case
  • 2 Railways of Desire: Prus–Freud–Grabiński
  • 3 Monstrous Queers
  • Part II The Fatal Man
  • 4 Henpecked Man’s Gender: Sztyrmer and Sienkiewicz
  • 5 “Homo Coco” or Witkacy’s Affair With Cocaine
  • 6 In the Hell of Heterosexuality: On Male Friendship in Zbigniew Grabowski’s Novel Ciszy lasu i twojej ciszy
  • Part III Witold Gombrowicz and the Forms of Masculinity
  • 7 Ship of Queers: Witold Gombrowicz’s Nautical Fantasy in the Story “The Events on the Banbury”
  • 8 Gombrowicz From Behind: A Project of Anal Criticism on the Example of Ferdydurke
  • 9 Trans-Male Migrations in Witold Gombrowicz’s Trans-Atlantyk
  • Part IV Beside Gombrowicz
  • 10 The False Saint: Genet and the Polish Question
  • 11 Polishness as a Source of Suffering: On Czesław Dobek’s Novel Na ratunek gołębicy
  • 12 Saint Witold: Queer Autoimmunity in the Prose of Christian Skrzyposzek
  • Bibliography
  • Editorial Note
  • Index of Names

No nation has needed laughter more than we do today.

And never has a nation understood laughter’s liberating role less.

… by showing the dangerous tensions of uncensored charms,

by dragging a compromising lyricism out into the daylight,

I wish to derail you. This is the rock that I am putting on your train tracks.

—Witold Gombrowicz (DI, 160, 187)

Contents

  1. List of Figures

  2. Acknowledgements

  3. Introduction: Masculinity as a Biopolitical Issue

  4. Part I Derailed by Desire

    1. 1 The Biopolitics of Masculinity Based on Schreber’s Case

    2. 2 Railways of Desire: Prus–Freud–Grabiński

    3. 3 Monstrous Queers

  5. Part II The Fatal Man

    1. 4 Henpecked Man’s Gender: Sztyrmer and Sienkiewicz

    2. 5 “Homo Coco” or Witkacy’s Affair With Cocaine

    3. 6 In the Hell of Heterosexuality: On Male Friendship in Zbigniew Grabowski’s Novel Ciszy lasu i twojej ciszy

  6. Part III Witold Gombrowicz and the Forms of Masculinity

    1. 7 Ship of Queers: Witold Gombrowicz’s Nautical Fantasy in the Story “The Events on the Banbury

    2. 8 Gombrowicz From Behind: A Project of Anal Criticism on the Example of Ferdydurke

    3. 9 Trans-Male Migrations in Witold Gombrowicz’s Trans-Atlantyk

  7. Part IV Beside Gombrowicz

    1. 10 The False Saint: Genet and the Polish Question

    2. 11 Polishness as a Source of Suffering: On Czesław Dobek’s Novel Na ratunek gołębicy

    3. 12 Saint Witold: Queer Autoimmunity in the Prose of Christian Skrzyposzek

    4. Bibliography

    5. Editorial Note

    6. Index of Names

Figures

  1. Figure 5.1. Autoportret – Mr Hyde (Self-Portrait: Mr Hyde), 1938, pastel. National Museum in Warsaw

  2. Figure 7.1. Verlag Gebr. Lempe. Kiel. No Sd. Postal Circulation: 15 November 1912 Wilhelmshaven. From the author’s collection

  3. Figure 10.1. The Lady and the Unicorn: Sight. Tapestry. 1500s. In the collection of the Musée National du Moyen Âge

  4. Figure 10.2. The building of the Prussian prison from 1891, Katowice. 1920s. From the collection of the National Digital Archives, reference code 1-U-2025

Acknowledgements

Writing a book always involves an encounter with the Other: with the otherness of the writer and the reader, with other perspectives and ways of thinking. Without these many encounters, this book would remain inconceivable. Therefore, all these individuals deserve special acknowledgement.

I want to express my deepest gratitude to the participants of the National Science Centre’s research project Męskość w literaturze i kulturze polskiej od XIX wieku do współczesności (Masculinity in Polish Literature and Culture from the Nineteenth Century to the Present), namely, Adam Dziadek, Krystyna Kłosińska, Krzysztof Kłosiński, Wojciech Śmieja, Filip Mazurkiewicz and Dawid Matuszek, who offered me valuable insight on vast sections of this book during numerous meetings and discussions.

Moreover, I am incredibly grateful to Ewa Kraskowska, the reviewer of this work, for her favourable editorial review. I owe special thanks to the older and younger generations of scholars, whose works determined my perspective on queer in the Polish context. It would be impossible to mention everyone here, but wherever possible, I remember them throughout this book. Nevertheless, I would like to sincerely thank Błażej Warkocki, Tomasz Sikora and Tomasz Basiuk, whose work and way of thinking I have known the longest and encountered most frequently.

Furthermore, I would like to acknowledge my colleagues at the former Department of the History of Post-Romantic Literature, as well as the supervisors and staff of the former Ireneusz Opacki Institute of Polish Literature Research at the University of Silesia in Katowice. I would also like to thank all those involved in the work on the English edition of the book: translators and editors, and in particular: Mikołaj Golubiewski, Jan Burzyński, Łukasz Gałecki and Cyia Mary Joy.

Finally, I would like to thank my partner, Kuba, for the many years spent together.

Introduction: Masculinity as a Biopolitical Issue

Throughout the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, countless homosexual and heterosexual1 men – and women2 – experienced and attempted in various ways to express queer forms of masculinity that deviated from the heteronormative model, which scholarly research refers to as hegemonic masculinity.3 Queer masculinities received considerable attention,4 also in Polish masculinity studies.5 Following Tomasz Sikora’s suggestion, I employ the Polish neologisms “odmieńczy/odmieńczość” (queer/queerness),6 deriving from the word “odmieniec”7 (a queer),8 rather than “odmienny/odmienność” (distinct/distinctiveness), which connote a broad range of meaning and do not always refer to the subject’s identity. At least since its use in Maria Janion’s research,9 the queer started to represent (non)identities deviating from the accepted social, moral and sexual norms in a given culture. Queer masculinities constitute an oxymoron, just as effeminate men or masculinised women. Understood in their individual and subjective rather than model and general aspects, the masculinities I discuss always constitute a hybrid combination of opposites: a combination that breaks the binarity of such oppositions as masculine/feminine, hetero-/homosexual, human/monstrous, phallic/anal, public/private, true/false, foreign/one’s own and I/the other. One should interpret queer oxymoronically as the abolishment of opposites, but not the difference that becomes mobile and changes depending on historical and cultural conditions. Michael O’Rourke, one of the editors of Queer Masculinities, 1550–1800, admits in the introduction that “queer designates a range of acts, identities, propensities, affectivities, and sentiments which fissure heteronormativity. Only the word queer can adequately capture the fluidity and amazing plasticity of unstable gender identifications and sexual identities”.10

When studying queer masculinities in Polish literature of the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, scholars must deal with the significant and widespread category of effeminacy, which conceals “a range of acts, identities, inclinations, affectivity, and sentiments” – although not exclusively in Polish literature, of course. The depiction of these differs to varying extents from the established model of masculinity, which steers in various ways towards what culture deems feminine. Monstrosity is another notion that closely and distinctively corresponds to this category; it even seems to exaggerate and shift man’s effeminacy into the realm of the inhuman and extra-human, “dehumanizing” the queer and rendering him vulnerable to the biopolitical interventions of state institutions. Effeminacy exhibits in a man the features of monstrosity previously attributed to women.11 If femininity became a sign of monstrosity, then effeminacy becomes, by definition, a monstrous masculinity, by granting feminine characteristics to a man. It appears disturbing because it blurs the line between the masculine and the feminine in the natural order of genders.12 Moreover, at least since the nineteenth century, monstrosity has been assigned to the category of the homosexual, identified as such in medical discourse.13

Furthermore, monstrosity closely relates to hybridisation, which the nineteenth-century contemporaries understood as a sexual interaction between races that led to racial degeneration and the decline of civilisation. Robert Young notes that, in the nineteenth century, hybridisation began to signify a broadly defined cultural interaction, which produced “a radical heterogeneity, discontinuity, the permanent revolution of forms”.14 Moreover, Young demonstrates the close connection between hybridity and homosexuality, which began being perceived as a product of mixed-race interactions that aroused social fear, like hybridity and effeminacy.

Effeminacy became a threat to the gender order to such an extent that it even seemed to autoimmunize the hegemony of masculinity and attacked it from within. I employ this immunising metaphor for a specific reason: to emphasise the historical view that equated effeminacy, along with a broad set of symptoms, with a disease threatening public health. An effeminate man insulted masculine honour and the entire nation, since maintaining manhood constituted a necessary condition for sustaining the national spirit. An effeminate man appeared as an internal enemy who infected the nation’s body from within. At the end of the nineteenth century, with the discovery of immune processes, the male body became the main object of concern, an object “worthy of defense”; threatened from within by decadence, effeminacy, weakness and the then-notable “disease of the will”. “Immunity-as-defense”15 became a directive of modern masculinity, understood as the capability to defend oneself against external and internal threats, because strengthening immunity/defence at the bodily level guaranteed immunity/defence on a national scale. Immunising masculinity, emerging from biopolitical discourses at the turn of the century, induced men to remain in a state of permanent readiness to combat the ubiquitous threats that infected the nation’s healthy body. At the turn of the century, the widespread belief emerged concerning the endangerment of masculinity and the effeminacy of societies. Max Nordau expressed it most clearly in Degeneration, and, according to Alan Sinfield, it was linked to the degeneration of the leisure class, immorality and the perversity of aestheticism.16 This belief led, in the case of judge Schreber, who serves as the starting point for my reflection, to the phantasm of a strong and resilient man – a superman or even superhuman – capable of defending humanity against any threats. The system of ideas created by the mind that fears the loss of masculinity introduces us to the core of the effeminacy issue. “Demasculinization”, the central point of Schreber’s phantasm, expresses the fear of losing masculinity, overcome by shifting masculinity into the realm of the feminine. Thus, Schreber appears as the sole and last warrior, fighting in defence of masculinity.

Krystyna Kłosińska argues that threatened masculinity became one of the most important biopolitical issues of the late nineteenth century, widely discussed especially in medical discourse, but also linked to other areas of social life, such as sociology, economy and politics.17 George L. Mosse believes that masculinity, understood in normative terms, emerged in medical discourse as an expression of concern for maintaining public health, threatened by numerous diseases, such as syphilis, tuberculosis and hysteria. Moreover, masculinity formed part of the vision of a modern, strong state grounded in nationalism.18 Therefore, a rather complex and heterogeneous system of representation, languages and discourses developed in the literature reflecting the anxieties of the late nineteenth century. It attempted to isolate this element threatening masculinity, from neuroticism to homosexuality. Thus, one can capture and examine queer masculinities by studying the threats contemporaries attributed to them. Therefore, the discourse of biopolitical concern for masculinity that emerged during the nineteenth and twentieth centuries serves as a starting point for asking whether queer masculinities were present in Polish literature of that period.

At least since ancient times, effeminacy has remained in a close relationship with anality. As Kenneth J. Dover and Craig A. Williams, scholars of ancient sexuality, note, effeminacy almost always signified a tendency to submit oneself anally to another man, which befit the masculine virtue (virtus) and the dignity of a free man: “a man who plays the receptive role in anal intercourse is automatically effeminate, no matter how bold and courageous he might be in the arena of public life”.19 Associated with feminine submissiveness, anal pleasure became highly problematic for the masculinity of ancient Greeks and Romans. The negation of anality as a zone threatening the public good emerged as the guarantee of maintaining masculinity’s public status. A man enjoying anal penetration appeared submissive in other areas of life, and therefore incapable of exercising authority over his family, subordinate women or even the nation. To prove his masculine virtue, manifested in his ability to dominate others, a man had to deny through his attitude any connection with anal submissiveness. In psychoanalytical terms, the fear of effeminacy resulted in the repression of the anal components that comprise libido or in their sublimation in socially acceptable forms. Masculinity emerged then as a construct based on self-control of one’s own desire, manifested in sexual abstinence and the ability to control oneself. Allowing a man to prove his courage and restraint, sexual abstinence required moderation in enjoying genital pleasure and emphasised especially the negation of anal pleasure. In other words, the negation of anality became a necessary condition for masculine identity. Therefore, masculine anality, subject to strong taboo in subsequent eras, becomes another vector – alongside effeminacy, monstrosity and autoimmunisation – which one can employ to describe queer masculinities.

The parameters I assign to queer masculinities – namely effeminacy, monstrosity, hybridity, homosexuality, anality and autoimmunisation – do not constitute a closed set, yet they consistently emerge as biopolitical threats. Effeminacy appears as a threat to masculinity; monstrosity, to humanity; hybridity appears as a threat to the natural division of races and genders; homosexuality, to procreation; anality, to public life and autoimmunity, to the cohesion of the organism and the entire world-system. The negative qualification of these queer parameters found expression in the nineteenth- and twentieth-century work, burdening queers with all the stereotypes and even sacrificial traits. Queers have always evoked extreme emotions: most often laughter or terror (alternatively, disgust), but never admiration or respect. The grotesque conveyed these extreme emotions in literature best and perhaps most frequently. According to Lee B. Jennings, the grotesque constitutes “a combination of frightening and amusing features”.20 Moreover, the grotesque involves “fantasy, a predilection for peculiar, eccentric, frightening, exaggerated, and deformed forms”,21 with a broad aesthetic base encompassing all human flaws and distinctness. Literary queer stands close to the aesthetics of the grotesque, sublimity, gothic and camp, understood as a strategy of resistance against normative gender and sexual identities.22 The terms most frequently assigned to the grotesque, such as monstrous, peculiar and weird, partially overlap with the semantic field of the word queer, that is, strange, suspicious, eccentric and homosexual.

The meanings of those two concepts converge in the early twentieth century and refer to phenomena deviating from what people generally consider ordinary, normal or natural: “I am not ordinary but demonic (grotesque demonism!)”,23 Witold Gombrowicz says about himself. Kłosiński notes that one of the grotesque’s most crucial tasks at the beginning of the twentieth century involves the denaturalisation of the natural order and the deconstruction of one key modernist opposition – nature/culture.24 On the other hand, Jennings points to another significant feature of the grotesque – anti-normativity, which replaces a norm with its proper anti-norm. Justin Edwards and Rune Graulund, the authors of a critical guide to the concept of the grotesque, discern the existence of the grotesque’s queer variety, namely, queer grotesque.25 Edwards and Graulund recognise the close connection between queer and the grotesque. From the queer perspective, the grotesque, whose essence lies in deviation from the accepted norm – aesthetic and ethical – appears as a departure from the gender norm. It manifests in the privilege of aberrant and abnormal forms characterised, among others, by: androgyny, effeminacy, masculinisation, homosexuality, bisexuality and abject. Edwards and Graulund note that the queer grotesque, by combining contradictions, simultaneously questions the binarism present in the official discourse: norm/anomaly, masculine/feminine and undermines any normativity in terms of gender and sexuality. What captures this oxymoronic, hybrid quality of the queer grotesque quite well is the figure of the effeminate man, to whom I devote most of my attention in this book. Hence, by posing the question about the unclear gender status of the “pantofel”,26 the title of this book aims to expose the critical potential of the queer’s grotesqueness. The insult “Pantofel! Pantofel!” that appears in Ludwik Sztyrmer’s novel I discuss as a performative speech act with causative power, constitutes a harmful word and bears all the marks of hate speech27 that deprives a person of human dignity. Furthermore, the analysis of biopolitical discourses confirms that dehumanisation and desubjectification of a human being, namely, reducing it to “bare life”,28 constitutes the first step towards its annihilation. As the centre of numerous negative emotions and prejudices, as demonstrated by its semantic productivity in Polish,29 “pantofel” becomes, in fact, the grotesque of a man and a human being. However, due to the subversive quality of laughter, the double-edged blade of this grotesque may in this case also emerge as a critical reflection aimed at the hegemony of masculinity. Judith Butler notes that apart from its crushing power, an insult “may also produce an unexpected and enabling response”,30 because “the offensive call runs the risk of inaugurating a subject in speech who comes to use language to counter the offensive call”.31 The literary queer exemplifies such an inaugurated subject, who turns the grotesque into a weapon against the hegemony of normative language. My reflections aim to recover this second, somewhat forgotten side of the grotesque that deconstructs existing forms and disenchants queer negativity.

Assuming grotesque forms to various degrees, effeminacy characterises almost all the characters of my story: Pantofel in Ludwik Sztyrmer’s novel, Petronius and Nero in Henryk Sienkiewicz’s Quo Vadis, Count Łohoyski in Witkiewicz’s Pożegnanie jesieni (Farewell to Autumn), Kneadus and Gonzalo in Witold Gombrowicz’s Ferdydurke, and Witold from Christian Skrzyposzek’s Wolna Trybuna (The Independent Tribune). Monstrosity, effeminacy and anality of queer masculinity manifest themselves most explicitly in the interwar prose of Gombrowicz and Witkiewicz. In turn, Gombrowicz’s tradition of the queer grotesque becomes clearly transformed in postwar emigrant fiction (Dobek and Skrzyposzek). My selection of texts is neither closed nor normative. I do not intend to attribute the abovementioned parameters to individual authors or specific novels, although one can easily imagine within this framework some of the works by Jerzy Andrzejewski, Michał Choromański,32 Zbigniew Uniłowski, Henryk Worcell, Marian Pankowski or even Michał Witkowski. Instead, I attempt to demonstrate under what temporal, social and cultural conditions these parameters begin to interact and to establish alternative identities to the hegemonic masculinity dominant in a given culture. Moreover, as a negative point of reference for masculine identity, these parameters converge in the biopolitical discourse of masculinity that emerged throughout the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, with literature serving as its particularly sensitive indicator.


  1. 1 See Robert Heasley, “Queer Masculinities of Straight Men: A Typology”, Men and Masculinities 7/3 (2005), 310–320.

  2. 2 For more on the forms of masculinity that women formed in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries, see Judith Halberstam, Female Masculinity (Durham: 1998). An analysis of female masculinities in Polish literature is a topic for a separate study.

  3. 3 Raewyn Connell, Masculinities (Los Angeles: 2005). For a synthetic overview of social theories of masculinity, including Connell’s concept of hegemonic masculinity, see Mateusz Skucha, “Męskości nowoczesne? Wiek XIX”, Wielogłos 1 (2012), 7–20; Krzysztof Kłosiński, “De(re)-konstrukcja męskości”, Teksty Drugie 2 (2015), 11–29.

  4. 4 I should list here at least the works in which “queer masculinities” appear in the title: eds. Kathleen O’Donnell and Michael O’Rourke, Queer Masculinities, 1550–1800: Siting Same-Sex Desire in the Early Modern World (New York: 2006); Raz Yosef, Beyond Flesh: Queer Masculinities and Nationalism in Israeli Cinema (NJ: 2004).

  5. 5 It is impossible to list the works of all the scholars engaged in this research field. Therefore, I limit myself to several names important for Polish literature studies: Alessandro Amenta, Marian Bielecki, Barbara Czarnecka, Ewa Graczyk, Inga Iwasiów, Maria Janion, Tomasz Nastulczyk, Piotr Oczko, German Ritz, Mateusz Skucha, Piotr Sobolczyk, Kazimiera Szczuka, Wojciech Śmieja and Błażej Warkocki.

  6. 6 See Tomasz Sikora, “Odmieńcy/Śmieci”, Kultura Współczesna 4 (2007), 45–62.

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Biographical notes

Tomasz Kaliściak (Author)

Tomasz Kaliściak is Associate Professor of Literary Studies at the Silesia University in Katowice. He specializes in literary theory and history, gender studies, and queer theory.

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